Incompatibility with your spouse led to the downfall of your marriage. Now, the next chapter has arrived in your relationship with your ex. It is finally time to be realistic and honest because a post-marriage relationship does not have to about bitterness, cruel behavior and animosity. Ongoing acrimony is not good for you, your former spouse or your children.
Now you want to be a dependable and considerate former spouse. It is up to you and doing so is possible. Some couples have better relationships after they divorce, while others continue to berate each other. You do not want to be in the latter scenario.